Life can have at times have a tendency to keep you stuck in a groove and tied to your self identified mythology. In fact that is all that is in in essence - your own personal myth which you have indoctrinated yourself with and have come to accept as true about your own life situation. It becomes even more pronounced as you get older as your life story has a way of reinforcing itself as being very real and - as if you cannot dream a new world into being. It can have literally years of life examples bearing erroneous testament that demonstrate to you "the power of the world over you" versus "your power to create for yourself".
It is misleading and very false because you have succumbed to your own conditioning and feel that you are not sufficiently a free enough agent to defy your own fated circumstances.
We all embody archetype and accept it as being true when in fact it is a spell that we have come to accept as the totality of our lived experience. "I am this" or "my life is this way and always will be" are ways in which we sabotage ourselves and perpetuate our dramas. Trying to exist outside of this current seems an impossibility but it require of us to self examine where these beliefs have come from and access them from an archetypal model as if we are only emerging from a dream and nothing else. For us to forge new directions we need to let go of old scripts, habits, beliefs about ourselves and finally our reticence not to take action.
We need to uncover the myth for what it truly is a symbolic imprinting from our families and even our cosmic timeline which was destined for us even before we were born. The dynamics that are set into motion with the unique family crucible are those which we can continually assume as our mantle or to finally have the courage to face it for what it was, say thank-you for that experience, dispense with it and rewrite your destiny.
Its hard to release your own life-story when its been dramatised time and time again but of course its via the subconscious mind through which these reinforcing tendencies make your script seem valid and the only viable outcome for you at any given point in time. If you were to closely examine your self talk you would recognise that you are hardwired for certain situations, and possibly as if your habits are a more comfortable and expedient reality than creating new ones.
But in the field of archetypal energies the very embodiment of these powerful forces as personal mythology is something through which you can access and pierce through direct recognition. What has been your prevailing unconscious programs no longer has the power to overtake you and diminish you. It is nothing but a disempowering worldview which is outworn, outdated and one that no longer serves your reality.
We need to get to the fundamental gist of our own personal narratives as the hero or heroine of our life story. We need to identify our own life tale and how it has held us bound to outmoded situations and self identifications. By engaging with your own myth you can re-orient your destiny. The very act of altering small aspects of your life towards desired outcomes and for any kind of aims or ambition has the power to enter a new destiny timeline.
It just involves an upgrade...nothing more than that and a commitment to see steady daily progress in alignment with that reality that acknowledges it in a tokenistic fashion EVERY day.
The first step is to acknowledge your beliefs about you and your life and how they got you to where you are as they become your reality. Do this by identifying your tale and writing it as a summation in about a page as if it were about a mythological character held captive to an inhospitable situation. Write about your early family life as if it were a mythological tale and you will see how this story-telling has held you bound to a drama that no longer serves its purpose. I can guarantee seeing it on paper has the power to literally draw it from the primordial depths and bring it into the consciousness of light of day.
By engaging with this internal dialogue before your eyes you can finally for the first time recognise it for what it truly is, a set of narratives which you have come to accept as the basis for the type of life you have expected to lead. All it is is just endemic patterns that you have unconsciously allowed to define your very existence and hence derive your self identification. What you write has the power to prize open a flood of unexamined reflections and to identify truly redundant aspects to your nature and have nothing to do with your unlimited self. You are really in possession of your God self so in reality there is no such thing as self limitation.
The next step is to write your new life script about things about your life such as where you wish to go, whom would you like to meet and how to engage your new reality instead of being held in bondage to a tale that holds no meritorious value other than to hold you back in life and fill you with bitterness and resignation. You can always adopt a new world view but it requires the same kind of energy you have devoted to reinforcing your disempowering mythology. Just sit and quietly try to write how you intend navigate a new life charter for yourself that is more liberating and encompassing than your previous situation.
Then to daily re-read this and see how you are actively engaged in deploying new methods and means to achieve these objectives. It requires both commitment and diligence to see it through so it is something you owe yourself to revisit on a regular basis to see how much in keeping your new habits take precedence over conditioned behaviours. I guarantee your life will change since these new habits will coalesce into fresh new beginnings.